These people are described as your best friend and you would willingly raise their kids and, if you had to, give them a kidney. Then there are people whom you just love – deeply, permanently and not necessarily sexually. Sexual attraction can bring together two people who have almost nothing in common except what takes place between the sheets see most young marriages. There are three powerful bonds between people and, for better and for worse, they often operate separately, rather than together: sexual attraction, long-term attachment and romantic yearning.
Weekly sex will be OK, as long as passion is not required. No woman says: I want to have children soon and I am too conventional/cautious/career-oriented to do it by myself. No man says: I do, mostly because your money will allow me to become a successful businessman. Whatever the reason, it's certainly not because it's not happening.īut why should we have such illusions about marriage anyway? There are many things spouses choose to keep secret, and homosexuality is just one of them. Perhaps they aren't as ready to share their hurt. (You would not think a lot of men, confronted with a log of their hours spent on, succeed in convincing their wives that this is a common, heterosexual male way to spend an afternoon, but apparently they do.) There aren't as many websites for men left by gay wives. The top warning signs? Possession of homosexual pornography and evidence of visits to homosexual porn websites. A quick browse on the internet will reveal plenty of websites with names such as My Husband Is Gay and Gay Husbands/Straight Wives, with checklists for worried wives. When using a search engine such as Google, Bing or Yahoo check the safe search settings where you can exclude adult content sites from your search results Īsk your internet service provider if they offer additional filters īe responsible, know what your children are doing online.I 'm not sure why we should be shocked when someone ends a marriage and comes out of the closet. Use family filters of your operating systems and/or browsers Other steps you can take to protect your children are: More information about the RTA Label and compatible services can be found here. Parental tools that are compatible with the RTA label will block access to this site. We use the "Restricted To Adults" (RTA) website label to better enable parental filtering. Protect your children from adult content and block access to this site by using parental controls. PARENTS, PLEASE BE ADVISED: If you are a parent, it is your responsibility to keep any age-restricted content from being displayed to your children or wards. Furthermore, you represent and warrant that you will not allow any minor access to this site or services. This website should only be accessed if you are at least 18 years old or of legal age to view such material in your local jurisdiction, whichever is greater. You are about to enter a website that contains explicit material (pornography).